7 Things To Find In The RIGHT Ideal ONE (Insights From OKYEAME KWAME)


Young but highly ambitious people like myself usually take notice of the works of our mentors in order to draw inspiration and then prevent certain mistakes already made by such mentors. The lifestyle of celebrities is like a motion picture for billions entangled in the lust of entertainment, but here I am, not just having a view on “Keeping Up With The Apaus” in this case, but sitting in a lecture theatre with Okyeame Kwame‘s life shown on the screen. To most of us, he is not just a talented rapper, actor and businessman. His rare sense of humility in spite of his heavy achievements in showbiz and other facets of life (aiding in the fight against Hepatitis B) is something many other celebrities will deem extremely daunting. I present to you a post written by the RapDocter himself, placed on his Facebook timeline on the occassion of his 7th anniversary of marriage with the replica of a great wife, Annica Nsiah-Apau. It’s going to be helpful to so many young guys who currently or may progressively fall into the confusing waters of finding the ONE, and on the other side, help ladies to present themselves in such a needed way to being the ONE.



1. Understanding
When we were getting married (in the picture) Anni downed the cost of the ceremony by accepting a modest wedding. But the thing that struck me was that she took a red material, tied it around her neck (collar), put a belt on it and that was her dress for the ceremony. Though simple, she looked radiant. So when i was saying I DO, knowing that she would do everything in her power to make life easy for me, I said it before i was even asked to.

2. Fighter
Everybody who knows Anni well knows she is a fighter; she fights for her rights, fights for what is hers.. (Agyeiwaa the Eagle) protects her family with all her foresight. Life is war obviously, and when you have a fighter on your team, you are already a winner. She fights everything or everyone that fights against me. And its beautiful how she never fights me.

3. Sacrifices
Annica had always wanted to be a lawyer. After her first degree in law, she met me, put a hold on it, to pursue an MBA with a marketing option so that she could understand and support my music business. Her long essay was in finding alternative avenues to market music. All of this was to improve my work. 4 years ago, i asked her; ‘what do u wish for in life?’ and then she said ‘i wish to be that person who supported Okyeame Kwame to be all that he wished for ‘


4. Virtuous 
When I met Anni 11 years ago, she was 22 years and still a virgin. For a beautiful, attractive, classy, curvy young woman to stay on this path even when she was young, I am rest assured that infidelity is not part of this argument. (m’ada koraa). If ever i see a text message on her phone that says ‘last night was great’ my reply will be ‘you have the wrong number pls’.

5. Hardworking 
Most people who work with my wife always ask me “why does she send her mails at 12 midnight?” She wakes up at 4:30am to ready up the children for school. We work together, and get home averagely at 10pm. And no matter how tired she is, she is always ready to fix me food. I have sworn an oath of monogamy which makes her life peaceful during the day and ‘rigorous’ at night With little resistance, she lights up my soul almost every night. After all, all my energies are concentrated at one place.

6. Optimistic
My first point should tell u that Anni knows how to adjust during hard times but also knows how to ‘chop’ and enjoy during good times. Because she understands that good times with a creative man is only possible when i have a high level of peace, whenever i am troubled or distressed she knows how to calm me down. With just one sentence, she can put a smile on my face. Some of her favorite sayings; “we will get through this koraa”, and “a million years from now who’s gonna care”…..Vim ‘tins’ all the way!!

7. Home Support
She has given me two children who fleece my skin (pun intended). You should visit my home to see Anni and the kids on homework, the perfect balance of not sparing the rod and spoiling the child, literally. When I’m out there working, I know my back is
covered. She doesn’t pile up their faults and ask me to come and deliver the whipping. That’s why my children love me more . As the bible says, he who finds a wife, finds a good thing and obtains favor with God. So for the same reason why people are invited to weddings to witness a confession of love, today, on our 7th anniversary, I confess the 7 reasons why i love my wife.

May all of you reading this enjoy a great marriage.

Achaab Daniel ABALANSA
Twitter: @AcHaaB_dAn
IG: achaab_dan_gh
Email: achaabdan@gmail.com

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